The Shining Barrier: From Pagan Fortress to Sacred Sanctuary - Part 3: Practical Boundaries

Published on November 28, 2025 by Paul Blake

A glowing white tree with stars against a dark blue background, symbolizing sacred boundaries in relationships

This is Part 3 of a 3-part series exploring Sheldon Vanauken's "A Severe Mercy" and what it teaches us about protecting love in all our relationships.


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This article is currently being written and will be published on November 28, 2025.

In this final installment, we'll explore:

  • Practical principles for building your own "Shining Barrier" in modern relationships
  • What to keep from Van and Davy's original vision and what to discard
  • How to create boundaries that protect without imprisoning
  • Specific practices for married couples, families, and friendships
  • The difference between healthy barriers and isolating walls
  • How to maintain sacred space for your relationships in a demanding world

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